I documented this some years back in my diary. It is a sad story that messed me up for a long time. My mum would go to the market and leave me with a female neighbour. I also stayed with this lady when I was on holidays from school or when I returned from school. I remember her features almost vividly, more saddening,
I remember the unholy liaison she initiated one fateful day. On this day she took me to a secluded spot within her own apartment. She stripped off my clothes and hers as well and proceeded to touch me everywhere. This became a regular practice. Thus began my first sexual experience at an early age; an experience which led me into years of perversion. Before I knew it, my sexuality was awakened and I began to desire sexual relationships with the opposite sex. One or two years after, I attempted to molest a girl that was almost my age. And as my perversion grew, I sexually molested a younger girl in my teenage years.
This is my last story in this series of Key Household Practices and I have very personal attachment to it. I think for custodians to learn in details how to deal with the issue of protecting their precious children from sexual abuse, I advice to read to my handbook: 20 Tips on How to Safeguard Your Girl Child From Sexual Abuse.
I must quickly add here that it is a different story today as God has helped me immensely in healing my sexuality since 1997 when I surrendered my life to Jesus as my Lord and savior. It has been an interesting journey of how I have moved from sexual abuse to sexual purity. Someone asked me about how to counsel sexually abused boys on issues like this. I will devote some days next week to sharing the nuggets, which helped me in my journey from abused childhood to transformed adulthood.
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