I continue from the chapter from our Book of Tips and submits that for young people to masturbate and reach orgasm, they will often have to call to mind and focus on the objects with which they have filled their mind while consuming lewd and pornographic materials. Therefore masturbation and the processes of cultivating it as a habit are bundles of distraction to the young person.

It has been found that the possibility of getting addicted to masturbation is very high. The reason is that the more one masturbates, the harder it gets to attain sexual excitement and ‘satisfaction’ from it. The more it becomes harder to get sexual excitement and ‘satisfaction’ from it, the more the young person, who engages in it, wants to do it. For example, a person may begin with masturbating once in two weeks. As time goes on, he/she moves to once a weekly, daily and thrice or more daily.

I was addicted to masturbation from my teenage age to early adulthood (27 years old to be precise). I started gradually, giving expression to my sexual urge. The more I gave in to my sexual urge and masturbated, the more the urge increased and the more I masturbated and the more I did it, the more I had to do it again. At my peak, I could be going on the street and the urge will become so strong that I would look for a secluded place to masturbate. The more I fed my sexual urge the more it grew and took control of me. Thus the word of John Dryden is ever true, “we first make our habits, and then our habits make us.”

I will also like to state that when it comes to finding a balance on issues like masturbation and other sexual expressions or perversion, we must always be interested in going back to God’s Value System, which informs the purpose of everything He created. I believe God created sex and the urge that leads to it. God did not only create sex and the urge to engage in the same, he gave guidelines on how to engage in the same.

#Wemove from here next week.
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